It wasn’t necessarily the girl and the flame that provided
the satisfaction, although they were fun to watch...
It wasn’t the completely empty main road, save for a few
police motorcycles, although that was a novel sight...
It was the people!
“We should do this more often!” I overheard someone say and, yes I agree. We should! We met up with lots of neighbours who we hadn’t spoken to for months. Mr A even met an old colleague and has planned to go off sailing with him.
“We should do this more often!” I overheard someone say and, yes I agree. We should! We met up with lots of neighbours who we hadn’t spoken to for months. Mr A even met an old colleague and has planned to go off sailing with him.
You really do have to go out walking to meet and chat. I
know that I could walk without a dog but since our lovely Josh died there’s not
been the same incentive. Even if I had a cast iron will [which I don’t] it only
takes a few spots of rain and I’m either switching the computer back on and kicking
off my shoes or reaching for the car keys.
I’m not saying that I never see friends and
neighbours but those are organised events. How lovely to just stroll down the
road and know that you will meet up with familiar people. That must be
what it’s like living in ITV’s Coronation Street and popping in to the Rovers
Return. [We don’t have any local pubs round our way, something to do with a
covenant on the land.]
I often wonder how many lonely people there are living
behind closed front doors. [Front doors do hold a certain fascination for me. I posted up a poem about them here.] I’m sure that as social animals we were never meant
to live in single-residency units and I have a niggling belief that somewhere,
during our many centuries of sociological development, we took a wrong turning.
Is it too late to find a better route?