Time is a strange concept. We can't stop it and yet sometimes it seems to be hardly moving at all. We can't stretch it and yet sometimes it feels as if that would be the only way to get things done.
An excellent example is the Cemetery Research Project. The Heritage Lottery have allowed one year to complete it. A year is a long time, right? Wrong! There's so much work still to do and it must be done by October. Not that I'm complaining too much because the work is fascinating. I've just finished documenting the travels of a Jewish gentleman who, during the late 1890s to the 1920s, moved with his family from Turkey to Egypt to Germany. With the rise of Nazi Germany, they moved on to Paris, then to Clacton-on-Sea, London, Littlethorpe and finally Leicester. It was a privilege to record this story and it's one of many. You'll be able to read them in full when the Website is completed which can't be long because, as I said, I'm running out of time.
Time is playing its tricks with my Children's Book of Richard III. I couldn't believe the day would arrive when I would hold the pages, with their beautiful full-colour illustrations, in my hands but yesterday I did just that. We're now working on last minute corrections, tweaks and alterations - we being myself (the author) Alice Povey (illustrator and book designer) and Lynn Moore (editor and publisher). We'll soon be ready to go to print BUT why is it taking so much time for the High Court Judges to make their decision over where Richard III will be reinterred? We may have to publish without waiting for their decision, which is fine because my book tells a satisfying story even without the reinterment, and there's always the 2nd edition!
If these were the only demands on my time, then time would be almost manageable, but there have been hospital appointments too and it's common knowledge that waiting around in hospitals can make time grind to an almost halt. Mr A has just completed his regular two days of tests at the National Amyloidosis Centre in London's Royal Free Hospital. They're so pleased with his progress that they don't want to see him for a whole year. You see! Suddenly a year feels like a good and long time. But my daughter is waiting for an operation. Because of her severe endometriosis, she's going to have to have a hysterectomy. There are just over four more weeks to wait and the time is going slower than a snail.
Do you see what I mean about time being a strange concept? If we knew the true meaning of time, I suspect we'd have discovered the true meaning of life, but I don't have the time to think about it right now. Maybe later, when I've time to spare... or maybe not!
What are your thoughts about time?
UGH! I have four kids and pregnant. I make three hours in the morning where I just sit down and write while the kids watch cartoons and then go outside and play. Its my time. When the bigger kids come home from school I don't sit down till 8:30pm. I think if it's writing, sewing, reading - anything. You NEED to find time to do something for yourself or you'll go nuts.
ReplyDeleteRemember to enjoy your kids while they're little. That's another weird 'time' thing. The days take forever when you're looking after them but the years truly fly. My babies are in their 40s and I haven't a clue how it happened!
DeleteOnly God knows the true meaning of time. And speaking of God, it sounds as if His hand guided that Jewish gentleman and his family out of the way of Hitler's horrible destruction.
ReplyDeleteHe did indeed, as will be revealed when you're able to read the whole report. There are some amazing stories of escape but unfortunately there are even more untold stories of those who didn't escape.
DeleteI find that time has speeded up as I have got older. It used to take ages for my birthday to come round! Hope all your projects and family ailments get sorted out in the fullness of time.
ReplyDeleteThanks, L. I agree. It is partly, but not entirely, an age thing.
DeleteI remember thinking my mother was bonkers saying time went faster when you got older - now I see what she was getting at. I try to remind myself that it's an artificial, socially constructed concept - but there's still not enough of it!
ReplyDeleteOur mothers were far more intelligent than we ever realised. I so wish I could tell Mum that now.
DeleteYou're so right. I wish I had more time to think about this now! ~Miriam
ReplyDeleteI suspect we'd never get it sussed, no matter how long we tried!
Deletetime is all so relative. Time at work seems to go slow, then the weekends zoom by. Time when worried can be fast or slow and it's agitating. Time sitting on the patio and visiting with friends goes quickly. Time visiting my father goes far too quickly and all we've done is move from meal to meal.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with all of your time issues. I'm very excited for your book - I bet it is fantastic.
And as always - your project is so worthwhile. A friend just went to visit her father in FL - he's 91 and a Holocaust survivor - quite a tale from Germany to NYC to FL. Take care and congrats to Mr.A for a good report. Enjoy your weekend
Thanks, it's strange how time feels so different on different occasions. Your friend's father no doubt has some interesting and sad stories to tell. I hope your friend has written it down.
DeleteGot a little teary eyed hearing Mr. A's great news!!!! I'll be sending best wishes for you daughter too!
ReplyDeleteTime is crazy! Great examples! :)
Thank you so much for your care, Jemi, and for your wishes.
DeleteHi Ros - so good to read this post and hear where you're at with the various things in your life ..the Heritage project - amazing, the book and I was wondering what had happened to the judgement - now I know .. we wait on them high judges! Well at least you've got that part covered ... and congratulations on getting the book to this point.
ReplyDeleteYour hubby - that year sounds good news, while your daughter's op .. will as you say snail pace forward - but tomorrow will arrive and be upon you ... I hope that does go well ...
Love the photo too .. and as Jemi says .. great examples of how we view time as we travel our lives .. have fun as you rock'nroll towards time never ending ... thinking of you .. cheers Hilary
Thanks, Hilary, the photo is the clock in our dining room with the iPad swirl technique :-) Fun.
DeleteFun .. must try that .. the ipad Swirl ... I shall see soon ... looks like the weather's improved/ing as the sun goes in! Cheers H
DeleteThe cemetery project is beyond fascinating. I love history and to be able to document a family's life and travels like that must be incredible. Glad for you husband and sorry your daughter has to wait so long. I had that done for the same problem and I have felt great ever since in that area. I am so looking forward to Richard III. Sorry to hear they still don't know where to place his body.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Inger, I do hope my daughter feels great after hers. They have now announced that Richard III will be staying in Leicester and I will, of course, blog the details soon.
DeleteYou have a lot on your plate right now!!!! Hope it all comes together ---esp. DD
ReplyDeleteThanks, Carol. Hope you can visit!
DeleteI agree, being at the hospital brings time to a screeching halt. My mom had a fall this morning and was in the ER for twelve hours before they got her a proper bed and got her admitted.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you have an awful lot going on. Hope you find time to enjoy all the good stuff.
So sorry to hear that, Ruth. I hope she makes a speedy recovery. Moms are precious!
DeleteRos, you must be getting all a severe case of relativity syndrome. What a lot you have to cope with right now. It's wonderful news about Mr A, and fantastic that your book is almost ready for release, but I wish you a speedy four weeks till your daughter's op, and a long slow summer after that to give you time to finish your research! It sounds fascinating by the way. As for me, I'm on the clock with my studies, so I could do with time slowing down to a snail's pace at the moment!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Val, and good luck with your studies. I remember when I sat my finals exams at Uni, I named the last day 'Yahoo Day' - that was before Yahoo was something to do with the computer of course.
DeleteHi Ros .. well now you can get writing ... in Leicester he remains - that must be good news ...
ReplyDeleteGlad that will perhaps alleviate a little work for you ... but I'm so happy he's going to stay where he died ..
Cheers to you and Richard III ... have a happy bank holiday weekend ... all the best with everything else too .. Hilary
Thanks for popping back. Isn't it excellent news. You have a good weekend too.
DeleteTime certainly is strange. A common thing that gets thrown out is 'the days drag by and the years fly'. And it's totally true. When you pay attention to it, time is hard to ignore the pressure of, but when you step back it goes so fast. And it's all subjective, for the most part. Unless a story involves time travel cuz those timelines are strictly mapped out.
ReplyDeleteIf only life could involve time travel! There are so many things I wish I'd done differently. If only.......
DeleteHi Ros,
ReplyDeleteThings sound hectic, do look after yourself, and take some time out for tea and cake, even better if its spent in good company. That'll keep you going! I really hope your daughter gets her appointment on time, and everything goes well. Great news on Mr A too.
I think there's some kind of nefarious scheme going on affecting time. It seems there aren't nearly as many hours in a day, or days in a year, as there used to be.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on getting to hold your book in your hand for the first time! Magical, isn't it?
Once again you have hit the nail on the head. I love this post.
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